You are NOT the father!
June 16, 2009 by A. Onesauce · 4 Comments
Liars suck. People lie about so many things that don’t even matter. Some men lie about how much money they have, so they can impress women. Some people lie about where they live, or who they know to boost their ego for whatever reason. Nonetheless, people can lie about almost anything and for the most part it’s not that big of a deal, it just makes the liar look lame once others find out the truth.
The one lie that I just can’t understand is when a woman lies about who the father of her child is. How can one utter those words, knowing the likely hood of a paternity test, and feel good about themselves afterwards? Maybe you are a little promiscuous and you slipped up and had more than one lover in a week. You probably liked one guy more than the other. Soon you find out that you are pregnant and you want to keep the baby. So now what? You can’t connect the dots to figure out which one of these men is the father of your child. Instead of telling both guys you are pregnant and that either man could be the father, you pick the one you want most and tell him, “hey, I’m pregnant and it’s yours.” If he believes you (and he’s smart) he’ll say, “Ok, guess I gotta do what I gotta do…but we’re gonna get a paternity test when the baby gets here.” Moving forward nine months the baby arrives, the “father” of your child gets the results and you all find out the baby isn’t his. WTF?! Seriously? To torture a man through nine months (or more) of emotional stress: arguing and frustration, is selfless and lacks the most common and respected female trait, COMPASSION!
This behavior is beyond comprehension (for me). With the lack of supportive fathers, “baby daddies”, and boyfriends, why would a woman subject herself and child to humility and uncertainty? A man willing and ready to handle his responsibilities despite the fact that each partner is not in a committed relationship is unfortunately a rarity in most cases. What’s the resolution? Where’s the middle ground? Is there a way for a woman to handle an illegitimate pregnancy without feeling worthless?
Here’s a better idea, when deciding who you are going to have sex with, think about the possibility of having a child with that person. If you cringe at the thought of it, then walk away or else be prepared to be on the Maury show.
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You could have really gone deeper with this story. Its not just the emotional roller coaster or the financial problems, its the family of the “father” who becomes excited, its the time lost from NOT doing the things a man wants to do because he knows he hast to save money for a baby. THe worst part is when a man finds out he is not the father, he cant get nothing back. SO here is the delimma. Find out you have a child on the way, so do you say hell naw its not mine and wait til he born to get a DNA test, risking being the asshole of all assholes to the baby mom her family and friends. OR, do you “do what u gotta” to later realize u can’t get nothing back if he is not yours. I’m still a lil messed over the fact I don’t have a son after being conditioned to believe so for 14 months, and I can’t get a sorry from that broad..in fact a friend of hers had the nerve to say it was partly my fault….go figure.
Damn Omar, that’s pretty fucked up. I have couple patnas that went through this. Let me know who this broad is so I wont run into her!
Omar, whoever u are, She will get hers! That girl deserves to get kicked in the Va-Gee. My brother went thru the same thing…Good thing his “baby mama” lives in another city. I better not see her in the street. I’ll keep praying for the kid tho, its not his fault.
Damn Omar. Sorry to hear that.
What song is that playing in the last 15 seconds of the Maury clip?
Dats why i tells broads “I am allergic to coochie lips and therefore I HAVE to WRAP IT UP B”